What it feels like for a girl...

I thought for a while whether or not to write about this topic, but in the end I decided to write... because it's important to open our eyes to see what is happening around us and learn something.

I've been in contact for three months with a person whom I thought was a boy and whom I treated accordingly... just to find out that the person is actually... a girl. The person presented herself with a short name (e.g. Alex), which is not unusual. If she would have presented herself with the long name (e.g. Alexandra), I wouldn't be writing this post now.

The issue came to light when I saw the name in writing. I was willing to stick my hand in the fire that it was a typo... it seems my hand would have burned badly...

I felt something weird from the first moment I came in contact with the person... because of the childish voice... I even asked: how old are you?
And the look... 100% male: male clothes, male shoes, short hair cut, no make-up.
The only clue... we met a few times in the girls bathroom. The first time I don't remember exactly what I said, but I'm afraid that I said: No problem, I enter the boys bathrooms from time to time, too. The second time I said, with an ironical tone: Caught you here again....
Now that I look back, I feel totally stupid. On the other hand nobody ever caught my attention and the person really looks like a boy. If she really wants to look like a boy, I congratulate her, she does it great from my point of view!

Conclusion.

I have no problem with the idea that a girl wants to be a boy. I would say that I find really admirable how she managed to accomplish this. People don't choose how to be when they are born, but they can choose how to live. If the man was born in a wrong body it doesn't mean that he is less intelligent, less beautiful or less sociable.

We, the "normal", we must understand that in nowadays society it's very hard to be "different" and accepted at the same time. And please assign the idea of "different" with other things too... like autism, like Down syndrome etc...
Try to do an imagination exercise. Put yourself in the shoes of a person who has one of the problems mentioned above. How does it feel? Is not that easy, is it?

T-shirt :: via miniPrix | Jeans :: H&M via miniPrix | Clutch :: via Kurtmann

Sandals :: local boutique | Sunglasses :: Ray-Ban

Trend alert - striped top with red skirt

In fashion, there are some classic combinations you can never go wrong with. As you already noticed from the attached pictures, I'm talking about striped tops with red skirts.

If you have these two items in your wardrobe, then you are one lucky fashionable girl.

I doubt there is still someone who doesn't know these girls, but if there is...  I'm letting you know that the first picture presents Blair Eadie, the second picture presents Romanian blogger, Ana Morodan, and the third picture presents another famous Romanian blogger, Ioana Gheorghe.

In my opinion, these girls know their way with fashion and worth being followed.

Now, tell me, who do you think wore this combination better?

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Summer days

These days, the weather gets more and more hot and I feel like wearing nothing... just kidding... :P
Instead of wearing nothing a better choice is to wear casual clothing in light colors and drink a lot of water...